How to Fight Antisemitism and How to Not
I marched across the Brooklyn Bridge in Sunday's Solidarity March because we face unprecedented times. Most of us have never experienced this level
of antisemitism and most especially the violence that has accompanied recent
attacks. We are struggling to make sense
of this increase in antisemitic hate and violence. And so I would like to offer some advice and
guidance for how we might approach these times and how we might fortify our
souls.
1. We must fight antisemitism
wherever, and whenever, it appears. We
must expose it. We must label it as
hate. We must never be deterred. Support the many Jewish organizations that
help to lead this fight, in particular but not exclusively the Anti-Defamation
League and the American Jewish Committee.
2. We must not pretend that antisemites only target other Jews. We must never say things like ultra-Orthodox
Jews, like those in Monsey, were targeted because they separate themselves from
the larger, American society. Just
because someone visibly identifies as a Jew and just because we have the luxury
of taking our kippah off does not mean we should give ourselves the permission
of separating ourselves from other Jews.
We are one people whether we acknowledge this or not. Antisemites make no distinction between
Jews. We should not, we must not, as
well.
3. We must not allow the fight against antisemitism to divide us. We must stop seeing this struggle through
our partisan lenses. Stop saying it’s
all because of this person or that, this leader or that politician. There is
plenty of blame to go around. There is
plenty of fault to be found with Democratic leaders and Republican
politicians. Can we at the very least
get on the same team in our fight against antisemitism? Do you think antisemites care who you voted
for or who you voted against? Again, we
are one people and we are in this together, Reform and Orthodox, Republican and
Democrat, synagogue going and synagogue denying. Fight the tendency to see each and every
antisemitic incident as proof of your political leanings and ask yourself
instead, what more can I do to protect the Jewish people, my people? Let’s stop fighting with each other and start
banding together to fight antisemites.
4. We must not be afraid. We must
not allow rising antisemitism, and in particular these recent violent attacks,
to make us constantly afraid. Of course
we should be cautious, but fear and caution and very different things. The latter is about making reasoned and
judicious decisions (by the way, we have an expert security company at the
synagogue who looks out for our safety and well-being). The former is about emotions. If everything is guided by the emotions of fear
then we will never do anything new again.
We will never talk to a new person or make a new friend or venture to a
new destination. Yes, the world is a
dangerous place, but it is also a wonderful place. And seeing that wonder, amidst all these
terrors, is a matter of belief and something that you can train yourself to
feel. I refuse to allow my soul to live
behind closed gates and doors. The
Jewish people have survived, and outlasted, far worse than our current
travails. Of course, it’s hard to gain this
historical perspective, or any perspective for that matter, when you are in the
midst of a fight but Jewish history should remind us that while antisemites have
often been arrayed against us, we have always persevered. Have faith!
5. We must not allow antisemitism to define us. We are Jewish not because of the names they
call us or what they say about us, but because we belong to an extraordinary
tradition that affirms life and provides meaning to our days. Our rabbis remind us that it is a commandment
to rejoice. It is a mitzvah to dance
with a bride and groom, for example. So
important is this communal obligation that it even takes precedence over the
demands of mourning. Rejoice! Shout God’s praises. Our tradition also offers blessings for
lightning and thunder. Imagine
that. That which conjures fear the
rabbis said we should instead find there the inspiration to offer praise and
thanks. There are many other examples I
could offer that might further illustrate this point, but let’s always recall
that we are Jewish because of the meaning and beauty Judaism offers us rather
than how we might respond to those who hate us.
Stay strong. Remain
focused. Have faith.
This week we conclude the reading of the book of
Genesis. Most of the time we look at
this book in the discrete units comprising the weekly portions. If we look at this first book of the Torah in
its entirety we find instead a remarkable teaching. The book begins with two brothers, Cain and
Abel. Cain of course kills Abel. We then follow the tensions between brothers
Isaac and Ishmael and Jacob and Esau. In
each successive tale the brothers come closer to repairing their fractured
relations but never fully realize repair and reconciliation. And then finally, at the conclusion of this
book, Joseph and his brothers are fully reconciled. Only a few weeks ago Joseph’s brothers wanted
to kill him. Now they forgive each other,
are reconciled, and live the remainder of their days in peace.
We must always have hope.
That is our tradition’s most important teaching. It was true then. It is also true now.